Did i say i was tired? ok.. i lied. Since i'm not going to sleep yet. shall blog abt this. It's more like a reply to Via's post.. she asked how much do ppl weigh 'sorry'.
To me... i would say that it depends. I realise that it's easy to say 'sorry' and forgive someone who said 'sorry' when it's just a passing matter.. like if i knocked into someone or stepped on someone... i would immediately say 'i'm sorry' without even thinking. sometimes even saying 'sorry' twice. sometimes even when it's not my fault... i apologise too. which i think it's a little stupid lah. dotx. BUT..
When it comes to a serious apology... it's really difficult for me to admit a mistake i made... it really takes a lot a lot of courage to say that word from inside the heart. Not only once in my life i made a terrible mistake or made someone angry... but i dunno how many times did i actually apologise properly. I think it's kinda ironic altogether. the ppl who said it most were nv sorry while the really sorry ones couldn't bring themselves to say it. dunno if i'm still like that now. dun rmb doing anything terribly wrong.
That goes the same for 'Thank you' too! The other one is 'I Love You' lah. these 3 are often deemed the hardest words/phrases to say. well. totally agree. if saying them is that easy... congrats to the world. but no! it's the challenge within the heart. easy to think of... hard to produce it out of the mouth. dotx.
Just to say. when saying 'sorry' (or the other 2 words/phrase.) mean it too. i think they do magic when real feelings are put into them.
*now i'm really tired. eyes closing le. =x
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